From a lot of people:
"This is depressing. I don't want to think about it."
Aw no. That's awful. You have to think about it? Gee, I don't know what I'd do if I had to think about it. Oh wait, I do. Everyday. Thanks for the support.
Point out ways that I could have prevented it.
Yeah because I haven't thought of that before and beat myself up about it.
This random guy I told one time for some reason because he said that he was a good listener. yeah right.
"If you don't remember it why does it bother you?"
I said I don't remember parts of it. And it bothers me because I can't remember everything.
"Yeah, a lot of girls say stuff like that to make guys feel sorry for them"
No comment on this one.
From my ex boyfriend one time when he was really frustrated:
"Chill out! It's not really a big deal!"
From his best friend:
"He probably just didn't understand that you didn't want it."
I don't know, I feel like when I told him to stop and leave and he told me that he wasn't going to leave until he got what he wanted, he pretty much understood that I wasn't happy and didn't care.
From one of his friends who called me to tell me what a sl*t I am:
"Yeah, I've heard your so called rape story. I know him. He is way too sweet to do that! You were the one who seduced him. You're such a sl*t!"
Excuse me but were you there? I was definitely not being seductive! Unless you are seduced by people crying and begging you to leave them alone. Also, yeah No sh*t he seems sweet. Do you think I would have gone out with him in the first place if he just walked up to me and said "hey! I'm a rapist"? I thought he was sweet too. that's why I let him alone with me!