I just wanted to make sure that people here were not going to say really mean things to me. I am extremely sensitive soul and I take things very personally. I figured that being molested for 9 years made me that way. I tried finding help on the marriage bed (an evangelical christian site about sexuality), when I still considered myself a christian (even though I am not sure anymore), and people said the meanest things, like since I have issues having sex with my husband I should set him free, and that I should give my child up for adoption, simply because sex makes me cringe inside and I pu