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About AstridB

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  1. New And Lost

    welcome to as
  2. Returning!

    I am kind of new, so I don't remember that other name or profile.. but welcome back
  3. I'm New

  4. New Here

  5. Hello :)

  6. Hello

    Welcome to AS. There are international members and others with sleep disturbances, so you will probably find somebody awake sometime.
  7. New Here

    Welcome to AS. I have found a lot of great advice here and endless support.
  8. Hello

    Welcome to AS.
  9. Introducing

    AS is the only forum I have been one, and I really like it.
  10. So Pleased To Have Joined

    Welcome to AS. There are many active members and great moderators.
  11. Sexist Remarks

    I am glad that you feel comfortable expressing your feelings instead of getting angry or running away from the situation. I can understand where you are coming from when you explain it all. My abuser was sexist. It was a male, and he said and did many sexist things.. even my therapist said he is "misogynistic." I am not sure if it was his background, his culture, his up bringing. IDK. I know sexism hurts, and I know all sexist males are not rapists. But I don't think I am sexist as a result of what he did. I understand how sexism hurts people. I have experienced it myself a few times in life, and it made me feel so invalidated and misunderstood. I think the people who are sexist are just really scared and have never been treated well by the opposite sex... but by the same coin, they may not be giving the opposite sex a fair chance to treat them well. It is a very difficult area of abuse, but I think we agree that it is a symptom of fear, mistrust, and PTSD. It's not a positive view to take into the world and it's preventing healing for them and others here.
  12. Sexist Remarks

    Many times I don't even know who are male and female here because we can't see gender. I know of a few males and I really value their input and encouragement in the group. They are great members and I hope they always feel comfortable here. I think when victims make sexist comments it's because they are angry or scared, but mainly trying to protect themselves. It isn't healthy, and we should all feel encouraged to help that person heal and realize their sexism is holding them back from regaining a positive outlook on life.
  13. Hi, New Here

    Hi Don't be afraid to share your stories here. It has helped me a lot and this site is very supportive.
  14. Hi

    welcome to AS