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Thanks for the kind words and offer of help. I may take some of you up on this. I know the person I am with is my soulmate but I also know it's going to be a journey to get back to close to where she was. I would do anything for this woman and I know I can't fix what happened ( a guy thing ya know). However, if I can do anyhing to understand and make it possibly less hurtful I will do whate ever it takes. I'm still just hearing little bits of what happened. She is not at a point where she will even use the "R" word. She is setting the pace and I am simply wanting to be there for her
Thank you for accepting my request to join. My name is Kevin and I am a secondary survivor. I am so sorry a place like this has to exist, but am glad I found it. I may be here while, simply because my Fiance is still on here own pace telling me about what happened. I know I need to be patient and let her set the course. I know all the feelings I am having, and can't even imagine what you all have been through and how my feelings pale in comparrison to yours. Thanks to AnneMarie and Jackie for the notes to me.