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Everything posted by PetalsInTheWind

  1. I said too much.. http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.ph...=90588&st=0 Thank you, sorry.
  2. I had a bit of a freak out last night and made a post when I probably shouldn't have. May I have it deleted please? Thanks, it can be found at http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.ph...c=87461&hl=
  3. I have this same problem. It would be very helpful to get the name shortened to just After Silence.
  4. I just tried to get into the chat room and all I got was a notice stating "You are not permitted to use this feature" This has never happened before and I haven't recieved any PM's saying I'm banned and I don't think I did anything to get banned... Chat worked last night. I tried refreshing the page and redownloading java and still nothing. Can someone help me? Does anyone else get this?
  5. Hey hun, Welcome to AS! It's nice to meet you. I like your username. I'm so sorry about what happened to you. Please know you aren't alone. If you need anything, my PM box is always open. I hope this site can be everything you hoped for. if ok, if not Take care, hope to see you around the boards. Lily
  6. Didn't see this till now, Thanks Vera! And no worries, there are too many topics here to hit in one day!
  7. So I'm looking at this and trying to figure out what to say, because I am with Wolfie that I would like some input on relationships from secondaries. What if we gave secondaries access to all forums? I'm not saying they could read all the posts, because looking at this reply thing there are three little check boxes down there, can we add a fourth one for "Enable viewing by Secondary Survivors"? That way survivors can choose whether or not they want secondaries to see, and secondaries can still go around helping people who do want help from them without being cornered by the number of forums
  8. Hi, I started a topic in the humor forums and it's something for people to post funny pictures of themselves, but a few people who want to do it aren't comfortable with it being in a public forum (yeah, kinda stupid, forgot about that part), so is it possible to have the post moved to a suitable private forum? I don't know where to move it, sorry. If it's not possible, no worries. The topic can be found at http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.ph...mp;#entry818289 Thanks again!
  9. Hey hun! I don't think I know you, but welcome back! I hope you're feeling better. Hang in there, Lily
  10. Hey, Welcome to AS!! I'm glad you found the courage to post! It's nice to meet you! If you ever need anything, feel free to PM me, I don't bite, honest! Take care! Lily
  11. Hey everyone, I'm not trying to say people aren't allowed to have an opinion or shouldn't express it, but I was wondering if we could all make a bit more of an effort not to judge people so much in chat? I'm guilty of this too, but it takes alot of effort for someone to reach out to us in chat, and placing blame or judgement on them is really hard and I've spoken to a few people who don't even want to go into chat anymore because of this. So maybe just keep this in mind when you are in the room? It'd be really appreciated. Mods, sorry if this is in the wrong place, its just an issue I felt
  12. "You are nothing but a selfish b*tch and never there for ******. She is always there for you, but you're never there for her. You are a fake, everyone knows what you're really like lol"
  13. "You are nothing but a selfish b*tch and never there for ******. She is always there for you, but you're never there for her. You are a fake, everyone knows what you're really like lol"
  14. Yeah Kelly, thats all I meant. Sorry possum, I didn't mean any offense, I just didn't want any mods who celebrate christmas being drawn away from their families. I'm Christian too if that means anything. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to sound prejudiced.
  15. Hey, I know this has been brought up before, but I was wondering what the verdict is on opening a second room for Christmas. To alot of members this is a hard time of year, and to avoid triggering people with holiday stuff, but also not silencing other members, I thought it might be a good idea to have one room where you can talk about christmas and share about your day and stuff, and in another you're not allowed to. I know a mod has to be in the room, but aren't there any athiest or mods of other faiths who dont celebrate christmas available? Even if it was just open for 3-4 hours, I think i
  16. Hey, Welcome to AS! How awesome you wrote a book, I love to write too but I can never finish anything. I may have to look up your novel. My story is a bit like yours when it comes to parents, and I'm sorry it has to be, you deserve so much better. I hope you find alot of friends here. AS has kind of become my family where my own didn't want me, hopefully you can find your family here too! If you ever need anything, feel free to PM me, I don't bite... often. (jk) Wishing you the best, Lily
  17. Hey, Ummm.. I'll just tell you now I'm Christian, but I'm don't put my faith in replies. I'm sorry if its a trigger for you, if it bothers you please stop reading now. Other than that, welcome to AS! I hope you find some support you need here. I get talking to the dog too, mine is like my live-in therapist. If you ever need anything, feel free to PM me. Wishing you the best, Lily
  18. Welcome to AS! We're glad to have you! I'm sorry you have so much anger. It will fade with time. I hope you can make yourself at home here, if you ever need anything my PM box is always open. Lily
  19. Hey hun, Glad you found the site! I would say to try the relationships and sexuality board, or the gathering place to ask advice on how to tell your bf. I hope you find your way around alright! If you ever need anything, my PM box is open. Wishing you the best, Lily
  20. Hey, welcome to AS! My name is Lily, its nice to meet you. Its ok to be overwhelmed, everyone is usually on their first time joining a site like this. There are alot of people here, and in a community where everyone knows each other that can be a bit intimidating, but we are a family with open arms and love getting new members! You are very welcome here and we're glad to have you! The place can seem a bit scary without knowing a few people, so if you ever need anything feel free to PM me. I always respond as soon as I can. I hope you find your way around alright, and feel free to come visit
  21. Hey, welcome to AS! Its nice to meet you! Things can be pretty scary when you first start out. I would try replying to a few posts and meeting a few people if you feel a bit overwhelmed before you post, and chat is a good way to get comfortable here too, at least it was for me. If you ever have any questions or need to talk, feel free to PM me. Wishing you the best, Lily
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