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Jules77

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  1. Hi, welcome to AS, I hope you find being here as helpful in your healing as I have
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    Hi welcome to AS I am glad you have found AS, it is a safe place to come to talk and get support, I hope you find it as helpful as I have. In no way are you selfish for asking for support, I know plenty people who I think have suffered worse than me but that doesn't mean I don't need or deserve support, I do and so do you. Take very good care, safe
  3. Hi Welcome to AS I am so sorry this has happened, this person sounds twisted and evil!! Please try not to blame yourself, I know I was very suseptable to believing what people tell have told me all my life, I trusted everyone but me and unfortunately that is common among survivors. Being I was programmed as a child I doubt it would have taken someone a lot of effort to programme me again, the fact this evil person managed to convince you that all was 'normal', this certainly does NOT make you stupid, it makes him an abuser! You are so brave to share this! I hope you find all the care
  4. Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all x
  5. Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all x
  6. Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all. You are not alone anymore x
  7. Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all x
  8. Hi Crohnie Welcome to AS, I am so glad you found us all here. I hope you find it as wonderfully helpful as I have over the past year, everyone here is so very supportive and caring. Jules
  9. I can relate. I put all my effort into other people and never consider myself. I also have a little sister and I felt like I had to 'grow up' and take responsibility for her and watch out for her because if I didn't, she would end up like me. ((((Stardustblue))))) I am so glad you feel a some of the burden has been lifted by talking, it helps me a lot, keep posting! I am sorry you relate with this too, it is hard to understand and accept these things (well for me it has been) and then change them too. I was an only child, so only had me to look after, but I would just like to say just h
  10. Hi stardustblue, Welcome to AS I just wanted to say you are not alone, I completely agree with LadyFlyover My t told me that when I was a child I was turned into the adult in my family so they could all be children and do what ever pleased them, I kept my family from falling to pieces but in doing so I sacrficed myself. I still find myself pleasing people, as it is all I have ever known, but I am working on this. I struggle now as I can see what happened and the result is that I am not really sure who 'I' am, thats one of the things I am trying to do just now, I'm trying to find me.
  11. Hi Emma, welcome to AS.. and let me say wow that was a really brave thing you did, you should be really proud of yourself! Take very good care
  12. Hi, I am so glad you have found AS! I stumbled over the site accidentally but I am ever so glad I did, I have come so far and understand much more than I ever could have learnt on my own. Take very good care and I will hopefully see you around the boards
  13. All in your own time, no one expects anything of you here, but we are here to support you whenever you need it, even if it is just to ask for a hug, to just know someone is there and cares
  14. Hi Brokenspirit, I am so glas you have found AS, this is an amazing place for us to share and get the love, support and information we need and deserve, I have found it hugely helpful and hope you find the same. Welcome to AS!
  15. Welcome to AS Well done to you for taking this step, I think you are a very brave and I am glad you have found AS. It has helped me so much over the past year, I know I wouldn't be where I am today without the help and support from the wonderful people here! Take care and see you around the boards
  16. Hi Katy, I am so glas you have found AS, this is an amazing place for us to share and get the love, support and information we need and deserve, I have found it hugely helpful and hope you find the same. Welcome to AS!
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