Jules77

Hi welcome to AS

Hi, welcome to AS

Hi, welcome to AS, I hope you find being here as helpful in your healing as I have

Hi welcome to AS I am glad you have found AS, it is a safe place to come to talk and get support, I hope you find it as helpful as I have. In no way are you selfish for asking for support, I know plenty people who I think have suffered worse than me but that doesn't mean I don't need or deserve support, I do and so do you. Take very good care, safe

Hi Welcome to AS I am so sorry this has happened, this person sounds twisted and evil!! Please try not to blame yourself, I know I was very suseptable to believing what people tell have told me all my life, I trusted everyone but me and unfortunately that is common among survivors. Being I was programmed as a child I doubt it would have taken someone a lot of effort to programme me again, the fact this evil person managed to convince you that all was 'normal', this certainly does NOT make you stupid, it makes him an abuser! You are so brave to share this! I hope you find all the care

Hi Tigerlillygirl, Welcome to AS

Welcome to AS

Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all x

Welcome to AS, I am glad you found us

Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all x

Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all. You are not alone anymore x

Hi, welcome to AS. I hope you find it as helpful and comforting as I have, there are so many wonderful and understanding people here, I am glad you found us all x

Hi Crohnie Welcome to AS, I am so glad you found us all here. I hope you find it as wonderfully helpful as I have over the past year, everyone here is so very supportive and caring. Jules

I can relate. I put all my effort into other people and never consider myself. I also have a little sister and I felt like I had to 'grow up' and take responsibility for her and watch out for her because if I didn't, she would end up like me. ((((Stardustblue))))) I am so glad you feel a some of the burden has been lifted by talking, it helps me a lot, keep posting! I am sorry you relate with this too, it is hard to understand and accept these things (well for me it has been) and then change them too. I was an only child, so only had me to look after, but I would just like to say just h

Hi stardustblue, Welcome to AS I just wanted to say you are not alone, I completely agree with LadyFlyover My t told me that when I was a child I was turned into the adult in my family so they could all be children and do what ever pleased them, I kept my family from falling to pieces but in doing so I sacrficed myself. I still find myself pleasing people, as it is all I have ever known, but I am working on this. I struggle now as I can see what happened and the result is that I am not really sure who 'I' am, thats one of the things I am trying to do just now, I'm trying to find me.