This is also my first posting. I also live in the South, but I am much older! I am 57 years old and first started talking about the incest and rape just about 5 years ago. I kept that terrible secret way too long and allowed it to do damage to my psyche. I am so inspired by the young women who are getting help now. Actually I decided to face this because I was and am sure my father was molesting my great-neice and I couldn't stand by and see her damaged like myself when she could begin getting help now. As it turns out no one but my sister thinks he ever touched her so the only help she gets is knowing that it happened to me and I'm there for her. Thanks!