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hidden_pain

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  1. great idea pandoraisis. warm welcomes to all our new members. i hope you find this place to be as caring, supportive, and helpful as i have. hope to get to know you all soon. take care. dawn
  2. hi fern welcome here. you are so brave, strong, and selfless to have stood beside your friend through her trauma, especially given that it must have triggered a lot of bad feelings for you. i agree that you will likely never get over what happened to you entirely, but i believe that you can move foward, and live a healthier and happier life. although you may still struggle with some guilt, i like that you posted that you were young and did what you told. you had no responsibility in what happened. it was not your fault, and i'm sorry you were taken advantage of like that. don't feel bad that you can't love him right now. you may never be able to, but what's important is learning to love yourself. that's a long and hard process, but we're here to help. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  3. hi rob welcome here. i'm sorry for what you have experienced. you are so brave to be here. although this site is primarily compromised of women who have experienced abuse, i've noticed that there are a few men here, and that everyone trys to be supportive and helpful. no matter what your gender, each of us here has been through a similar tremendous pain, and that unites us. i think it's great to have both men and women on this site, because it allows for different perspectives, one group doesn't feel alone with their problem, and we learn that there are safe and supportive people of the same gender as those who have caused us such deep pain. i hope you find the support you need and deserve. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  4. hi nea glad you joined us. you're very brave to reach out. i'm sure many of us can relate to resorting to self destructive behavior as a way of "dealing" with our pain. don't be too hard on yourself. you did what you needed to in order to survive, and have taken a huge step in recognizing that some things need to change, and looking for help to make that happen. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  5. hi everybody. hope you are all doing well. sorry i haven't been on in a while. i'm not ignoring you or anything. i have no internet access at home right now and haven't for a little over 2 weeks, so i haven't been able to get online at all. right now i'm borrowing someone else's computer while they are showering to let you know why i haven't been around to talk. i really hope to be back online at home soon, and look foward to talking to you all again. miss you all bunches. take care. talk to you soon. safe hugs. dawn
  6. hi alysure i just joined a few days ago, so i'm pretty new here, but i'm glad to hear you're back. it seems like such a friendly and safe place here. i'm looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  7. hi heidi welcome here. i agree that you don't need to be raped to be traumatized. i hope you find the support you need and deserve here. i'm here to listen if you want to talk. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
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    hi mona welcome here. i'm glad you found us. i only joined a few days ago, so i'm new here myself, but have found this to be an amazing place. i hope you find the support you need and deserve. i'm here if you need to talk. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  9. hi jeannene i'm so glad you were able to find us. i'm new here, but have found this place to be really safe and supportive already. thanks all. i'm here if you need to talk. dawn
  10. welcome here erika. it was nice to chat to you the other day. i hope you're feeling a little better hun. dawn
  11. hi cindy. welcome here. i hope you find this to be a safe and supportive place. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  12. hi larissa. welcome here. i'm sorry you had to experience those terrible things. it's true that you don't get over things like that. i know it's unfair to have to continue to suffer because of things someone else did, but we're here for you. i just joined a few days ago, but this place seems really supportive already. i'm here to listen if you want to talk. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  13. welcome here moe. i'm so sorry for what happened to you. i'm glad you were finally able to tell your friends. that must have took a lot of courage and i'm proud of you. it's not something that you should have ever had to experience, let alone deal with all by yourself. as for telling your teacher, i suspect that she may have to report it, but then again, you never know. maybe asking her hypothetically (like explaining that your "friend" experienced it) would give you a better idea as to what her reaction might be? it's lousy that you don't feel safe enough to tell your mom, but maybe if you tell your teacher, (i think it might be good for you to have her support) she can be with you in telling your mom. it might be best if your mom knew and could be able to support you, because it seems like keeping this secret from her for fear that she might react badly is a burden that you really don't need. i totally understand your hesitance to tell her, especially since she reacted so negatively to your eating problem. i hope that whatever decsion you make, that you find the support you need and deserve. i'm here to listen if you want to talk. dawn
  14. hi desertsun welcome here hun. you did just fine with your post. i only joined a few days ago, and was pretty nervous too. i'm so lucky to have found a site where i'm understood and accepted, and have found that i'm not alone. i hope you experience this place the same as i have and find the support you need and deserve. i'm here to listen if you want to talk. i'm looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
  15. hi. welcome back. i'm sorry things were rough for a while. i just joined a few days ago, and the people here have been really nice and supportive already. it's a great site, and i'm glad you're back. looking foward to getting to know you. dawn
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