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  1. Really sorry for both of you. You are a special person to want to be so helpful and supportive to her, thank you for that. Unfortunately, you can't force her to do anything she isn't ready to do, it would not help her to talk to a pro if she isn't ready. She has to feel that she wants to tell or heal in order to do so. But I think that with time, she will come to a place that she will decide to let the secrets out and get some help for herself and her sister. The brother sounds like a total idiot talking about it to people, he's digging his own grave so to speak, but that is good for your g
  2. Welcome seeds! I don't know what you need help with but you are in the right place for support!
  3. WOW!! OUCH!! I'm so sorry!! Onyx did let us know you were in an accident a wile ago. I'm so glad you are back and I hope you have a quick recovery!!!
  4. Hello, I am sorry for the pain in your family. I didn't read the other responses, so sorry if I repeat something that has been said. I think that there is so much that you may not understand about your daughters, and anger may come and go many times. If they are not in therapy or have to pay for it themselves, this could have some connection to the 'boot incident' or perhaps, she may feel that she is entitled to anything she wants because she was hurt. I could be totally wrong, and probably am, just a suggestion. (I also realize it isn't really rational, but sometimes we aren't rational) As
  5. I just get these messages, 'so and so added you to their friends list!!!" and I have no idea what it's all about! lol You could always just change your signature to.... 'If I deleted you from my friends list, don't be offended, I'm just OCD like that.' LOL XO
  6. Is that what the friend thing is about??? I thought we should be able to accept or deny friends. What if someone I don't know adds me to their friends list, what does that mean anyway, can they see my personal info?(other than the stuff I posted on the forum. LOL)
  7. I don't think you are making anything up Hon, there is little reason for us to tell these things to our parents and stuff. I think maybe trying to stick it out with a counselor or T would be a good idea as well as sticking around here to read or post your issues. Hang in there hon, you have to face everything in order to learn how to deal with it. It can be done, but takes time. HUGS
  8. I tried to disable email notifications from here too, (only because the 'from' space is titled, Sexual abuse forum, or something like that, I share this address with my family, so it would be great if it could be more discreet) and it took quite a while to kick in for some reason, but it's OK now. Maybe I needed to log out and back in again or something, I don't know. Hope it works for you soon!!
  9. Yes it is fixed even better than before! I can see new posts on ALL pages of current threads, not just the first. YAY!! Thanks!!
  10. Awww Jeremy, HOW SWEET ARE YOU!!!!!! Welcome!!
  11. I can't see anything if I click on 'view new posts' or 'todays active topics' AND I can only view 1 post, then I have to wait a few hours before I can see anything else or I get the error message too. Is this part of the same problem?? I guess I'll have to wait a few hours to get my answer. LOL *beats gremlin with fly swatter and pours water on it*
  12. *sings* Koom by yah, my Lord, Koom By Yah, oh Lord, Koom By yah.* LOL (trying to break the tension here) lol I am so glad to see some regular Mods post(not to belittle the chat mods at all) it really helped to hear some explanations and examples, specially about 'questioning authority' I do feel much better. I also hope that my comment about some thinking they are 'above' others wasn't taken personally because I have no issues or contact of any kind (that I can think of anyway) with ANY mod. One point that was made that I thought was right on, was the statement about mods never (yes, I use a
  13. HI!! Welcome!!! I am so sorry you need to be here but so glad you chose us!!!!! That is a really great book. At least for me it is. I hope you know that ignoring it doesn't work and I hope you can feel comfortable being here and letting us help you with whatever we can. You don't ever have to say anything you aren't ready to so don't feel pressured to tell your story. You have to do it on your own time if you ever do it here or not. I'm so happy to hear you have this man in your life, too. HUGS!!!
  14. Wow, I go away for a few days and all hell breaks loose!!! This is a great post fall and I think a much needed one. My theory on what is going on here is the same thing that happens on all web sites of all kinds from time to time and in my opinion it is the issue of political correctness and social sensitivity.(which I fail at constantly) Plus, the fact that a lot gets lost in translation. We can't see body language or hear voice inflection. It can make things seem so much the oposite of what is really meant. Some people may feel that when someone doesn't agree with them, it is disrespect
  15. Don't give up friend, please, I know this place is frustrating at first, but give it some time please!!
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