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George

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  1. Hey, I just want to say thanks to everyone. I have missed many here and feel a bit strange that there are so many new people. John, the idea for the Healing Through Creativity Festival came from AS. It all started here.

    Thanks again everyone,

    George

  2. Hi,

    Sorry that I have not been around much, but that is live. Had to work in remote locations and just moved. I met a lot of nice people here and feel like AS saved my life and gave me back my strength. Thank you all so much and expecially Vera who showed me how to log in when I was really in bad shape. Thanks from the bottom of my heart to all of you here at After Silence.

    George :tealribbon:

  3. Hi,

    You are already doing the best thing that you can. You are supporting and listening to your friend and now she does not have to weather the pain alone. Your honest and true friendship will do wonders. She will know through you that she is not to blame, that she is accepted and that she is very important. If she choses to, She may need support in finding professional help a counselor to help coach her through the healing process. I'm sure you will get some very good ideas from others here at After Silence and I wish good health and happiness for you and your friend.

    Take Care,

    George

  4. Lizalou,

    I wish I had a good answer for you. Your situation is so similar to mine and I'm not doing that well. All I can say is that you will have to be patient and he will understand when he is ready. I love my wife, but she is like talking to a wall. After what happened on Valentine's Day, I am so turned off to s** that I just feel numb. I'm glad, because that is a safe improvement. When she is ready (which may be never), she will begin to try to understand. The power is in all of us to overcome the hurt we feel and take back control of our lives. I just don't know how to find and use the power, but I think that may be where we need to look. Maybe someone can give us both some good advice.

    I wish much happiness for you and your husband,

    Warmest, :hug:

  5. You did the right thing and I hope you start to feel good about it. No one has the right to take advantage of you without your approval. It is the same as forcing by violence. Glad you stood your ground. Good for you!!!! :!:

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