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fightergirl

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  1. Hi Krisdafish Welcome to AS Im Cathy, I am part of the Newbie support team here at AS, So if there is anything I can help you with let me know Happy Belated birthday Hope that you have reassurance you need, and I hope that we can help you through this journey if ok?? Look forward to seeing you around the board Take Care Cathy
  2. Hi meabc123 Welcome to AS Im Cathy, I am part of the Newbie support team here at AS, So if there is anything I can help you with let me know Look forward to seeing you around the board Take Care Cathy
  3. Hey Welcome to AS My name is Cathy, I am part of the newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help you with feel free to PM me I am sorry for what has brought you here, but I am glad you found us! I hope that we can help you through your healing process! It seems like you have a lot to deal with, I hope you take time for yourself Hugs and Support Cathy
  4. Hi JC84 Welcome to AS My name is cathy, and I am part of the newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help with feel free to PM me I hope that we can help you in your healing journey, look forward to seeing you around the bourd Hugs and Support Cathy
  5. Oh don't get me wrong I wasn't sticking up for him, I thought that might be the reason obviously not! I can't believe someone in that position could be so nieve and ... I'll stop there!!! Yeah some of the laws in Ireland are a bit messed up!
  6. :hammer: :hammer: :hammer: :hammer: That is CRAZY!!!! can't believe that!!! But I am wondering if he was saying that in the eye's of the law they can't??? because in Ireland technically in the eye's of the law it is not seen as rape only sexual assault!!! I got very upset when I found that out!
  7. Welcome back Good to see you are in a better place if ok??
  8. Welcome Back Sorry to hear a lot of stuff has happened! but as you know we are here to listen and support you when you are ready to share if ok??
  9. Well I think this is a great start! Hopefully this will make most people think twice! other than that the only thing we can do is contact a mod when someone does say something, or just remind them that there are male survivors! and just try keep awareness up that there are male survivors so it hopefully people will keep that in mind while posting!! Anyone else have any idea's???
  10. It is a numbers thing Callum & po I agree, but that does not make it ok! Just like it would not be ok to say something bad about Irish people just because we are out numbered!!
  11. Welcome back I compleatly understand what you are going through with your IP, seen as I work for one (don't hate me) and hear everyday the hardship some people have to go through due to technical issue's.. But glad you have it worked out
  12. I must say that I hate any type of predujice, it really annoys me when people paint everyone with the same brush.. Possum I am glad you started this thread because it needed to be said, and I think that we are all hear for the same reason... and should all be treated with the same degree of respect! Thank you
  13. I want to change that, for all my abusers... I am better than YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  14. Hi azwriter Welcome to AS My name is Cathy, I am part of the Newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help you with feel free to PM me. I can tottally understand about being Hesitant, I was the same when I first joined, and didn't know what to say really. And now they can't stop me For some it takes a while to settle in, but I asure you that it is really a great place, with great people just take your time and have a look around for a while. And I am sure you are just as brave and as strong as everyone else here, You are a survivor Take Care Cathy
  15. Hi Barb Welcome to AS My name is Cathy, I am part of the newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help you with feel free to pm me I am glad you have found us. I am sorry to here that you are struggling with what happened. But I hope that you will find the site helpful and see that you are not alone. Look forward to seeing you around the boards Take Care Cathy
  16. Hi Michelle Welcome to AS My name is Cathy, I am part of the Newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help you with just let me know I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that for so long, and I'm sure that going through the legal side was not easy, you must be a very Brave powerful woman. Its good to hear that you are in councilling I hope it is helping. I am glad you found us, and I look forward to seeing you around the board Take care cathy
  17. Hi Teleah Welcome to AS My name is Cathy, I am part of the Newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help with please feel free to PM me I'm sorry for what your father has done, but I am glad that you have found us and that we can part of your recovery look forward to seeing you around the board Take Care Cathy
  18. Hi Samantha Welcome back Look forward to seeing you around the board Take Care Cathy
  19. Hi Michelle Welcome to AS My Name is Cathy and I am part of the Newbie Support Team, so if there is anything I can help you with feel free to PM me I'm glad you found us, and I look forward to seeing you around the board Take Care Cathy
  20. Hi Bobbi Welcome to AS I'm Cathy, part of the Newbie support team, so if there is anything I can do to help you feel free to PM me. I agree with found that you should read the rules and guidlines first, but after that its really up to you, take a look around, usually things that are triggering will have trigger warnings, but its kind of hard because every one is triggered by different things. Maybe you could try looking at the healing tips and inspiration forum click here I'm glad you found us and I look forward to seeing you around the forum Take care Cathy
  21. Hey terrymc Welcome to AS I am sorry to hear that you have been struggling with this for so long on your own, I couldn't imagine how hard that is, I did it for a few years but really 34yrs I don't think I could have done it, you are obviously a very strong woman. Good to here that you have seen that what happened was not your fault, that is a big step. I hope that AS can help you in your Journey. If there is anything I can do to help just let me know Hugs and support Cathy
  22. Hi sammie09 Welcome to AS Don't worry about not knowing how to use the site, it does get easier, I think it can be hard if you have never done it before, but I am sure you will pick up the basics in no time If there is anything that I can do to help just me know Hugs and support Cathy
  23. Hi Asley Welcome to AS Don't worry about being nervous I think most of us were when we started, and I still am sometimes, even though I know a lot of people here, but it does get easier I promice Just to let you know I am part of the Newbie support team here at AS, so if there is anything I can help you with just PM me and let me know Look forward to seeing you around the board Hugs and support Cathy
  24. Hi Simone Welcome to AS I think that for some people it is better to have a look around for a while before they post something, because it helps them feel more settled in, and makes it easier to post I think it is important to do what everworkse for you Hust to let you know that I am part of the newbie support team here at AS and if there is anything that I can do to help, send me a pm and let me know Look forward to seeing you around the board Hugs and support Cathy
  25. Hi Delia Welcome to AS I'm sorry for what has brought you here, but glad you found us Its good to hear you are graduating in May.. well done not an easy achievement while trying to deal with all the stuff that comes up. I hope that you get the help that you need and deserve from this site. Are you in T (therapy)? because that can help alot! Just to let you know aswell, that I am a member of the newbie support team, and if there is anything that I can help you with, Let me know, just pm me Look forward to seeing you around the board Hugs and support Cathy:hug:
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