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phoenyx

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  1. (((LouV))) Welcome to After Silence. I have been doing some research and it seems to me that contacting RAINN would be your best bet as they have qualified and trained professionals who can best assist you in with the info you seek. I don't know what else to tell you. Lilea appears to have it covered there. Best :9 I believe. I have researched RAINN'S site and found it extremely informative however you may want to call them directly for what you need. I wish you the best and hope you find peace and what you're searching for.
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    New Here

    (((K))) Welcome to After Silence. I'm glad you found your way here, though sad you have reason to be here. Feel free to explore,browse and post at your own pace. I look forward in getting to know you better. Remember you are not alone in your journey. I hope you find this site as warm and supportive as I have. Be kind to yourself
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    new here

    (((trying to heal))) Welcome to After Silence. I am 43 also. I am glad you found your way here. I hope you find this place as warm and supportive as I have. Be kind to yourself. Look forward in getting to know you
  4. ((((Annaleigh)))) Welcome to the group. Take your time and post when you are ready. I am also an incest survivor as well as a survivor of multiple rapes. You are strong and I'm glad you found your way here. Know that you do not walk alone, we are here to support you no matter what you do. Be gentle with yourself. Looking forward to getting to know you
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    new here

    (((freed))) Welcome to After Silence. You are strong in using your voice just by coming here. Know that we are here to support you and you do not journey alone. You are courageous and beautiful. You are a survivor. Be kind to yourself
  6. ((((momster)))) Hi and Welcome to After Silence. Glad you found your way here yet sorry you have reason to be here. It is the age for your daughter to question her parentage. Naturally buried emotions come to the surface in a frenzy. It's no wonder you're feeling confused, lost and angry. Know that all your emotions are valid. We are here for you. Be kind to yourself. I hope you find this site as warm and supportive as I have
  7. Even now I wish i had a mom like you who would stand by me emotionally. Mine never did. There were many clues she just never put the pieces together. My father was only the first of my abusers. Issues such as trust,closeness and love will come in time. Healing is possible and your continued love and support will help your daughter to find her way back. We each heal in our own way at our own pace. We are here for you and you do not walk alone.
  8. ((((blackopal)))) I am so sorry you and your daughter had to endure that much pain. Your daughter is very courageous and strong for going through the system and seeing justice done. She also has a wonderful mother to support her. A lot of parents I know would have turned the other way. Please don.t feel guilty as I'm sure if you knew what was happening you would have done something. Your daughter was brainwashed to hide it well. The blame and guilt belong with the abuser. Have you tried calling RAINN at 1-800-656-HOPE? They are trained in counseling and can refer you to the help best for you. I have not used them personally but others from the site have with lifesaving results. Look forward to more from you. Be kind to yourself [Edited on 20-2-04 by phoenyx]
  9. (((Alex))) Welcome to After Silence. I am sorry you have reason to be here and in so much pain, but glad you found the way to this site. Remember, the guilt and shame belongs to the abuser(s) NOT you. Know that we walk with you in your healing journey. I hope you find this site as supportive as I do. Be kind to yourself
  10. (((rabbit))) Welcome to After Silence. I'm glad you found your way here to us, tho sad you have need to be here. Take your time. Be kind to yourself. Look forward to getting to know you
  11. (((mj)))Welcome to After Silence. You are courageous for speaking out and I'm glad you found your way here. Take your time. We are here for you
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    Hello

    (((Charlene))) Welcome to After Silence. Take your time and post as you are comfortable doing so. I look forward getting to know you. Know that you are not alone here. Be kind to yourself
  13. (((Lassa))) Welcome to After Silence. I am glad you found your way here. I hope you find it as warm and supportive as I have. Be kind to yourself. Look forward to getting to know you
  14. (((Jess))) Welcome to After Silence. I'm glad you found your way to the site. I hope you find it as warm and supportive as I do. Be kind to yourself
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    Hi

    ((((Belinda)))) Welcome to After Silence. I hope you find comfort and support in the friendship here as I have. You are courageous for speaking out. I am so glad you found us
  16. Thanks Vera! You're a sweetie and I'm so silly-just couldn't figure that part out :D
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    HI

    ((((haunted)))) Welcome to After Silence. I am glad you found your way here. I am 43 and have been struggling w/numerous issues from age 5 thru adulthood. My story is posted. This is a very warm, safe and supportive site. I hope you find the it is the same for you
  18. (((purrsia))) Welcome to After Silence. I hope you find this to be as supportive for you as I have. There is such a tremendous amount of warmth and friendship here
  19. MUST change Email address--- How do I do this?? Also need to reset my password - as I forgot my password-sorry:( thanks:)
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    Hi

    ((((princess)))) Take your time and know we are here when you are ready. Be kind to yourself
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    newbie

    (((sarabear))) Welcome. I was in my mid 30's when I began therapy. I'm now 43. Can understand where you are coming from. You are not alone
  22. (((newmrsd))) Welcome to After Silence. I'm glad you are here. I am sorry you are dealing w/so much pain. Remember that you are not alone. There is hope in healing. Days do begin to brighten. Be kind to yourself
  23. (((bplc))) Welcome to After Silence. This site is filled with warm and supportive people. There is always someone here ready to listen. Be kind to yourself. There is hope in healing. Remember, you are not alone.
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    New Here

    Hi Caren and Welcome to After Silence. I hope you find the great support here that I have. It's a wonderful site.
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