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"lots of girls get raped, it's not a big deal"

If you want to help her, call her everyday and ask her if she's ok, and when she answers you, dont tell her how she should feel, in fact, tell her you don't know how she feels at all, but you care. As stupid as it sounds, it was the best thing my best friend ever did for me, she never downplayed how I felt, but reassured me she would listen no matter how long I wanted to talk, or what about.

Hi red, Can't say I'm glad you're here, it makes me sad how many more people join everyday Know we are fighting this battle with you! If you need an ear, feel free to pm me anytime, we won't judge you here

hi there sweetie i understand you're shy, but know that we are all here in the same boat together we'll all support you and help you where we can, and offer an ear when you need to talk just remember, this is the internet, we don't know who you are, or where you're from, or your history. We cannot judge you sweetie, nor would we. :hugs:

it's unfortunate that a woman wouldn't recognize that you were uncomfortable with the situation. Some people, I tell you. I think in life, you need to march on, no matter how hard your heart aches. Your feet will lead you down the right path. Trust your instincts, and know that healing takes time, but eventually you'll get there.

i made a very tasty lunch with all natural and healthy ingredients normally i don't take much time to cook, so i made myself do it and it was satisfying!

thank you to all for the warm welcome, both in pms and in threads

Hi ladies This is very new for me, as I'm sure it was for all of you as well. I don't know my head from my foot right now, but I am so greatful there is a forum like this that allows me to contact women in the same situation as myself. My ordeal happened 4 months ago, and I'm still a bit in denial and shock. Please forgive me if I'm not very open, I don't think I really know how to be. But I can promise that I will respect each and every one of you, not only as survivors, but as women. For those of you who are on the road to recovery, I applaud you all. You all are my heroines. (sp