this week i donated to a fund to help my uncle who abused me for 15 years. he's fighting cancer. i did it anonymously. this isn't the first time i helped him or the others. And because of this mom thinks i'm hopeless, i know she's worried and scared i might move back in with the rest of my family. obviously i will never do that.

should i ignore him and the rest, never forgive and move on? does that make me the better person.. or am i stupid.