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Lonelygirl13

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I have read some comments and one said to ask your friends to write nice things about you to cheer you up. That is such a good idea, however, I have "friends". People who claim we are friends and don't show any signs of being friends. I am always there for them when they need it but when I need them they are no where in sight. Some people get upset when I call them out, but they know that they aren't being the best person they can be. I would donate a kidney to them because thats the kind of person I am. And I know they wouldn't even send a text to me. How hard is it to send a text that says "Hi"? I understand they are busy but it takes two seconds out of your day and you aren't even willing to do that for me. As soon as I ask them if they are busy they say "Oh yeah sorry I didn't text you I was super busy." and then they are out on instagram partying and hanging out with other people. I feel like I am unworthy of their friendship and they aren't even willing to send me a shred of support when I need it the most. I have told a total of like eight people about all the trauma and most of them are supportive. Others don't even reply to my texts and that is a shot to the heart. I just wish that I could get the support I give others 

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marcyabadeer

@Lonelygirl13 I understand you fully... it seems next to Impossible to get the support we need when we need it. And because we know how it feels to be in that spot, we are nice to people and always there for them. But in most cases, people are too damn selfish to grant that same respect. I don’t know why... maybe it is too difficult for them to not be consumed with just themselves. I don’t really know. If you need to vent or anything we are here for you :)

sitting with you if okay?

sam

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18 hours ago, samantha2009 said:

@Lonelygirl13 I understand you fully... it seems next to Impossible to get the support we need when we need it. And because we know how it feels to be in that spot, we are nice to people and always there for them. But in most cases, people are too damn selfish to grant that same respect. I don’t know why... maybe it is too difficult for them to not be consumed with just themselves. I don’t really know. If you need to vent or anything we are here for you :)

sitting with you if okay?

sam

Thank you, those words mean a lot to me. I don't know why people don't support us when we support them. It makes me feel like I am not worth their time and they don't care about me. I am so glad that someone else feels the same way as me. I wish you the best 

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