I been calling the nursing home my mom in trying to get on the HIPPA list of people who are allow to know about her care. They refuse to call me back. They called my brother. He and I texted back and forth about it.

According to him I am not allowed call the nursing home. He will tell me what he thinks I need to know. His way or the highway.

So I out of the family agian. I could So hear my stepfather in that. E always said it's the the right way the wrong way and his way.

I don't even think , if I write a letter they will give it to her. Most of the staff went to hi school with my sister in law.

I am leaving it up to my wife if I file a complaint with the board that oversees nursing homes in that state.

She's concerned that my brother would retaliate by filing a complaint against us because of her mentally handicapped child. 

 and as pissed off as I am I'm not going to get my wife in a war she's not prepared to fight. 

 so sorry Mom there maybe nothing I can do to protect you now. 

I also called my insurance company about therapy. The only two people I trust in the world, my wife and son, think that it can't be weaponized against us.