Be grateful that your boyfriend can handle the details. Mine doesnt want to know too much. I hated therapy growing up and recently just started going. Session six this wednesday. For me its becoming a little harder. Im scared. Im scared of remember what happened to me during my CSA. And the more trusting i am with someone, the more difficult i am i guess you could say. So for me its a struggle in my own way, just because of having trust manipulated as a child. I have a coworker that was R a few years ago who has a a great success with therapy. I know its going to be hard for me but i just do my best. Its all for the better. You just have to find the right person, and it may not be the first try. Do research for someone who specializes in what you need. And just have a positive attitude.