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From the Connecticut Sexual Assault Crisis Services (ConnSACS) (http://www.connsacs.org/seeksupport/index.htm): Center for Women and Families of Eastern Fairfield County, Inc. Rape Crisis Services 753 Fairfield Avenue Bridgeport, CT 06604 Office: 203-334-6154 Hotline: 203-333-2233 Email: CWFServices@cwfefc.org Women's Center of Greater Danbury Sexual Assault Crisis Services 2 West Street Danbury, CT 06810 Office: 203-731-5200 Hotline: 203-731-5204 Email: womens.cntr@snet.net Women and Families Center Meriden office Middletown office New Ha

By county; more information here: http://www.njcasa.org/centers.htm (click on individual links for more details) ATLANTIC COUNTY WOMEN'S CENTER P.O. Box 311 Northfield, NJ 08225 Office Phone/Hotline:(609) 646-6767 (609) 646-4376 Hotline: (800) 286-4184 Fax: (609) 645-8877 TTY: (609) 645-2909 YWCA of Bergen County 75 Essex Street, Suite 108 Hackensack, NJ 07601 Office: (201) 488-7110 Hotline: (201) 487-2227 Fax: (201) 487-9609 TTY: (201) 487-0916 CONTACT of Burlington County P.O. Box 333 Moorestown, NJ 08057 Office: (856) 234-5484 Hotline: (856) 234-8888 Hotline: (609) 2

Wolfie/Haullie, I'm curious about what you write about people who don't really have DID or have diagnosed themselves, and how difficult it makes forum discussions. I hope this is not a stupid question, but I was struck by how strongly you both seem to feel about people who haven't really been diagnosed, and I'm just curious why that is - both why it attracts so many "hangers on" as you say, and why it's particularly troubling when people who do not truly have it talk as if they do. (I know next to nothing about DID myself - just the basics of what it is - so please forgive me if the answers

My ex: "I know it really bothers you because of what happened to you, but could you please go down on me?" (At the time, I thought he was being sensitive.)