philkay

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  1. Welcome back, Djinn, It's my first visit back too.
  2. That's still penetration.
  3. There's a sub forum in the Pregnancy and parents forum that deals with loss etc. See here. http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?showforum=62
  4. Hi Reglois, it looks as if there need to be new ideas on how to access male/female/LGTB forums. The female one just isn't that accessible at the moment.
  5. Hi 8888, it only seems to work when you use Google chrome. It also doesn't work when you're using a phone. This makes access limited.
  6. Hi, it takes the Admins to sort out chat and at present they seem to have some sort of difficulty coming to the forums. I think we just have to wait and hope they manage to overcome the difficulties, don't forget they're people too with their own lives to deal with.
  7. Hi Judith, a lot of posts got lost from the forum crash before the forums moved here. Everyone lost posts, some of the newer people (been here about a year) lost almost all of theirs so it looked as if they were new people with just a few starter posts. There were those that had to rejoin AS.
  8. Hmmm, if there is a problem with the password section then maybe its time to get rid of the password and have F member group tags like the M member group tag.
  9. I have noticed for some time that many can't get access to the female forum. It seems to require using Chrome and the password for access. It also doesn't seem to be working when someone is using their phone. If for some reason you can't use chrome or use a phone then you do not have access to the female forum. Here's mention of it here when trying to use a Mac. http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=99432 http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=71827&page=17 I asked Paula for the password and the one she sent me started with a c and ended with an l but when I tried it it didn't work either I tried c********l I've tried c********l, and I've tried c********l,. Because in the email it had the ,. After the password I don't know if this thread is monitored I think we are supposed to ask a moderator directly for the password. Who sent you the password Reglois? Posted 10 December 2013 - 07:03 PMreglois, on 03 Oct 2013 - 18:16, said: http://www.aftersilence.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=103594 Are the Male Survivor group or the Transgenders Survivor group having the same problems getting access when using various browsers or phones or Macs?
  10. Hi Samii, I suppose pms will work. I am noticing more new members that are male and don't know that they are listed as female. It's happened before where I've seen the odd one at a time its just that its in groups now.
  11. Hi Island, thanks for the reply. What happens if someone initially made a mistake when joining?
  12. I've noticed that some new members have had trouble describing themselves as male/female/lgbt and secondary survivors That means some survivor forums aren't accessible to them. Is there a way to make the distinctions clearer for those who are new to AS?
  13. I've noticed that there didn't seem to be any information for those looking for help in the Caribbean or even central or south America. I have come across a few AS members from the Caribbean on this site. Here's some contacts that I've found. Rape Crisis Centre of Trinidad and Tobago 40 Woodford Street, Newton Port of Spain, 868 622-7273 or 622 1079 12 San Fernando Street, San Fernando, 868 657-5355 http://www.iisd.org/50comm/commdb/desc/d31.htm Childline Trinidad and Tobago http://www.childlinett.org/ phone 131 or 800 4321 Samaritans/crisis lines Trinidad and Tobago - 645 2800 St. Vincent - 456 1044 Barbados - 429 9999 This site has advice centres for women http://www.hands.org.gy/crisiscntre.html
  14. Hey

    Hi Sticksnstones, welcome to AS
  15. Hi Beck , Welcome back.