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  1. I am happy you found the site Raincity, I think your whole world changes when you have to deal with the abuse of someone you are close to. I am glad to hear that your sister is doing well. Take whatever time you need to come to terms with this. It's a very difficult thing to accept and to move forward from.
  2. Of course you can't explain it. That's why people use drugs to assault someone. It's still not your fault.
  3. Welcome :-)
  4. Welcome, West have a very helpful community. I hope you find the support you are looking for.
  5. I understand and relate to the nightmares. I think they might even be worse with drug facilitated cases. I think men face more barriers than women do with respect to discussing assault. Nothing about the situation was your fault. The behavior of your assailants was premeditated and required planning. There is not anything you could have / should have done differently. I also agree with Phoenixx. If sometching happen to my partner I would want to know about it. Please take care of yourself.
  6. Welcome LittlePinkSock, I am veryour sorry for the circumstances that brought you here. This is a good site. I hope you find the support you are in need of.
  7. This is not your fault. You were clear about what you did, and did not want. He's a selfish ass.
  8. Hi Kathryn, That sounds terrible. I am very sorry you had to call your abusers home. I think "The Aftermath" would be an appropriate forum for this post. I hope that helps. Take care.
  9. Welcome to AS Elinor, Your anger and outrage are justified. I have a cousin with a strong Internet presence. Some of the things that have been written to her and about her online are horrific. It's appalling that speaking that way to anyone occurs to someone in the first place. I think the offenders feel "safe" to do it because they are anonymous. But it's never an excuse. I am very sorry you are dealing with this.
  10. Welcome Mariedoe, You can post in "Share Your Story" as soon as you have completed 10 posts on the forums.
  11. I wanted to post this video in a public forum. Everyone should have the opportunity to see it. Here is to my AS family. I love all of you.
  12. Hello thefighter, I am sorry for the circumstances that brought you here. We have male members. There is also a password protected male survivors forum. I am sure one of the administrators would be happy to help you gain access to that. AS is a very supportive community. I am glad that you found us, and that you are working on your recovery.
  13. Welcome Hayles
  14. Welcome Meggy, I also have PTSD. Feel free to message me if you need to talk.
  15. I am very sorry you have b had such terrible circumstances. It's completely normal to be overwhelmed. Take your time to get settled in. This is a very supportive place.