From my mother:
"He was too nice to ever do something something that horrible! I can't believe you would blame him for such a violent crime!"
"You were a child. He was an adult. You listen to your elders."
"You were the one to tell me not to say anything to dad. If I did, this would have never happened!"
From my father:
"I don't care if you had a gun to your head or not, you had no reason not to tell me!!"
"Well if you said no a little earlier, maybe this wouldn't have happened..."
"You were the one who was in a relationship with a 50 year old man."
"I swear I thought he was gay!": - LIKE WTF DOES THAT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT?????!!!!!
Oh, and regarding my parents...
How the hell did you miss these signs? They were like fireworks, they went off everywhere! The $750 keyboard he bought me, all the free dinners and movies out, the $200 worth of art supplies he bought me, the DIAMOND BRACELET he bought me...
What about when he said he would pay you both $500 to stay at our beach house for a week?! And when we were at the beach and it was about to storm and I wanted to go in the water, (and my mom was sitting right there and my 'abuser' said, "When you come out, I'll dry you off" with a big smile on his face!)
And I asked my dad "so how much money was my innocence worth to you?" - His answer was a smirk
From my 'so called friends'
"You're such a sl*t, I'm sure you liked it..."
"You could have tried to fight him off of you"
"You must have wanted it if you were in a relationship with him"
"You were 13. You were old enough to make a choice to say no!"
From one of my ex best friends...
"Maybe he thought you liked it and that's why he kept going" [referring to the handcuffs, gags and gun he used]
Ugh, I never understand the stupidity of some people!!!!!